The idea that narcissists necessarily have an abusive relationship with self is so poignant. That was certainly my experience as an adolescent when I suffered from a deep self-loathing. I am curious why some people escape and others become trapped. In my case, I encountered a friend who was genuinely loving who introduced me to Christ.
Evangelicals may point to the atonement of Christ, but this friend became a partner. We were roommates for years, doing ministry together, eating all our meals together, talking and laughing hysterically together most nights. Maybe it was partnership that saved me?
Yes, I personally believe that loving relationship saves; certainly not violent death. That's the theme of my book, really, that God is loving relationship, we are made in the image of God for loving relationship, and are healed to the extent that we enter into loving relationship--which is easier said than done. Godspeed you along your way.
This is the message I sat through years of church waiting to hear. I knew the stories, but the truth still felt illusive. The narcissism born in me can also die with Christ, that I may live evermore.
The idea that narcissists necessarily have an abusive relationship with self is so poignant. That was certainly my experience as an adolescent when I suffered from a deep self-loathing. I am curious why some people escape and others become trapped. In my case, I encountered a friend who was genuinely loving who introduced me to Christ.
Evangelicals may point to the atonement of Christ, but this friend became a partner. We were roommates for years, doing ministry together, eating all our meals together, talking and laughing hysterically together most nights. Maybe it was partnership that saved me?
Yes, I personally believe that loving relationship saves; certainly not violent death. That's the theme of my book, really, that God is loving relationship, we are made in the image of God for loving relationship, and are healed to the extent that we enter into loving relationship--which is easier said than done. Godspeed you along your way.
Thank you for showing how love and partnership are at the heart of our faith, not just theology.
This is the message I sat through years of church waiting to hear. I knew the stories, but the truth still felt illusive. The narcissism born in me can also die with Christ, that I may live evermore.
May Godspeed you on your spiritual journey.